10 life lessons from your… dog

1. This moment is all we have

I do not indulge in thoughts about the past and do not fear tomorrow. And it just seems to make me feel better. Because every day is new for me, and it is full of great opportunities.

I am not dragged down by past disappointments and resentments. I’m not trying to predict the future, good or bad. I meet every day when he comes.

This moment is all we have. Lie down with your paws outstretched, catch a ball or chase your tail.

2. Goodbye everyone

If you’ve been gone all day and you’re so busy that you can’t take a long walk with me, or you yelled at me, I’ll be upset, of course. But I will forgive you immediately. I’m still glad to see you.

I don’t analyze why you did what you did. I don’t need to understand this. I already forgave you – the past is gone, and our time is priceless. Let’s go for a walk?

3. Know what you really need

I don’t need a new bone. I want the old one, which I hid in the far corner under the sofa and covered with a dusty plush rabbit. It’s a little darker, but it’s good enough.

I don’t even need a new collar. And I only need toys if we play together.

4. Touch is important

And kisses too. Even if you are a dog. I want to sit next to you, and lie at your feet, and look into your eyes. To let you know how much I love you because I can’t put it into words. As do many people.

5. Always make time for the simple things.

For example, lie together on the lawn or in front of the TV. I will watch any films and programs with you, even if there is not a single dog in them. Do you know many people who would go for it?

It doesn’t matter that there are some desperate housewives on the screen, wherever they come from. But I’m lying next to you and you’re happy. It’s enough. And someday we’ll watch the Discovery channel together.

6. Sometimes you need to treat yourself

This is fine. A little treat is part of enjoying the moment. This is a sign that we appreciate the one who is near. When you give me a treat, you remind me that you love me. And I answer you the same. The time we spend together is also like a treat for me.

7. Be outdoors more often

You will feel better. And me too. I will run around and stop to pay tribute to the trees. You, too, will stop to notice their beauty and let the stress of today melt away.

You will think how peacefully the ducks glide along the surface of the pond – and I will climb into the water to scare them away. And all this is wonderful.

8. Make time for rest

Take a nap if you need to, then stretch well. Stretch your muscles and give yourself a workout. Set aside time every day for simple things to stay energized and ready for life’s challenges and opportunities.

Do the best you can. And I will try to be the best dog. And we will spend many happy days together.

9. We are together, and this is the main thing

Your body language and intonation are very important to me. You came home – I’m glad to see you. Dot. It doesn’t matter what happened that day. I wag my tail with all my might, you stroke me and say sweet words. Your voice at the same time sounds cheerful and a little familiar.

Sometimes you come in upset and tired, but then you see me. You see how glad I am for you, and you feel better.

Welcome. We are here, we are together, and this is the main thing.

10. Love is the only thing that matters

If you’re breathing, it’s a good day. None of us are perfect, and that doesn’t matter. True love sees no flaws.

When I’m old and my eyes don’t see so well anymore and my fur is like that dusty stuffed rabbit, you’ll still love me. Until the end of my days.

And so do I, for as long as I can. And even longer.