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It is in the nature of any woman to want to please the opposite sex and be loved. And sometimes a girl tends to despair because all her efforts are not crowned with success.
And if a partnership develops, the torment begins, how to remain desirable for your man.
Psychologists are unanimous. If a person has dissatisfaction with himself, the partner will intuitively feel it.
To avoid suffering, it is necessary to rethink the following rule: love yourself, taking into account all the comments, recommendations that men make.
If you follow the tips below, then the probability of liking and captivating a man with your person increases several times.
It is important to remember to be yourself and follow your feelings. In no case do not deceive your own “I”.
10 Vulgarity
On the topic of vulgarity, it is customary to profess a male point of view. The man is a conqueror, a warrior. In dealing with him, there can be no question of a “blue plate with a golden border.”
There must be some inaccessibility, understatement. A fine line between accessibility and inaccessibility. A man should have space where he could compete for a woman. After all, a man reacts subconsciously to a woman.
And if a man is deprived of a “field for struggle”, so to speak, “put on a chain” of life, then adventures and conquests will await him somewhere on the side.
9. Excessive shyness
Behind excessive shyness, there may be fear or anxiety that, due to inept actions, a woman will lose a man. If the chosen one is virgin, perhaps in her life there were no male friends and there was no experience of romantic experiences.
The complex of lovingly shy girls can also be found in those who were the only children in the family or who are naturally closed.
The statistics are straight forward. And, according to science, shyness does not affect the likelihood of establishing partnerships.
8. Imitation of others
The experience of personal relationships can only be personal. Bad or good, but only their own.
There is a concept of the sexual constitution. She is unique. If you use someone else’s experience, and it is unsuccessful, you can bring each other to a nervous breakdown.
An important detail, if some ideas in the intimate sphere were borrowed somewhere, then there is no need to give links to the source. Everything is presented as a desire to experiment with the good consent of a partner.
And what definitely should not be transferred to the field of relationships is the behavior of famous and not so women. Naturalness is the best way to attract the other half.
7. Constant feeling of guilt
The burden of past deeds can hunch or bend a person very much. If problems require active human participation, then it is necessary to delegate to other participants in the process of experiences.
Bringing yourself back to yourself is a very difficult task. But doable. What can not but rejoice.
6. Overconfidence
In any relationship, it is more beneficial for a woman to have the position of a “grey eminence”. Such women are called worldly wise or diplomatic.
A hyperactive woman makes any dialogue difficult. Know-it-all strives to share his point of view, even if there are only men among the interlocutors.
Moreover, you need to be careful in communicating with your partner. If you constantly hear “Me, me and me again”, then even the most energetic man will get bored.
5. Bad manners
Cultural relationships with others are also welcome in personal life. Intelligence, good manners will bring a special flavor to intimacy.
A person during sex is naked in the literal and figurative sense. The tendency to be rude in words and actions is absolutely unacceptable.
Meetings between people take place in the most unusual places. It doesn’t matter to the spark where to run between people. Only she will be noticed not among the noise, rudeness and din. And most importantly, and not where there is no respect for each other.
In addition, communication with the immediate environment, parents may require simple knowledge and skills in order to make a favorable impression.
4. Untidy appearance
This is the problem of all problems. Since it is necessary to comprehend the science of “how to be beautiful”. And first of all for yourself. To improve your self-esteem.
The skin of the hands, face, neck, first of all, betrays its mistress. Bitten nails. Split hair. Regrown hair roots. A man loves with his eyes. And if so, it is not difficult to be different.
In clothes, using perfumes different in time of day and season. It is not recommended for girls to save on consultations of makeup artists, cosmetologists.
3. Buying asexual clothing
According to men, clothes that disfigure a woman’s figure are asexual. These are overalls that are associated with uniforms. These are leggings.
These clothes are definitely comfortable. But it makes high demands on the figure. Clothing with funny inscriptions. Fishnet tights are needed only in an intimate setting, and not for public viewing.
Crazy kindergarten-like hair accessories. Sweaters that make you look baggy. If you really want, then of course you can wear what you like. But at the same time, do not worry about the aesthetic tastes of your partner.
2. Excessive talkativeness and frankness
It is a great temptation to talk with your partner about everything in the world. If the partners coincide in this, they are very lucky. If not, then there is no need to worry. There are specially trained people for confessions. Priests in churches. Psychologists. Parents. Girlfriends.
Personal space, feelings, the boundaries of the partner’s personality – it is better not to violate.
1. Lack of sense of humor
There are actually many interesting and funny things in life. You just need to notice and be able to present what you see from a comical point of view. The ability to joke initially makes it easier to transfer any life situation.
Even a smile that triggers facial muscle contraction already improves mood. What’s great about a sense of humor is that it can and should be developed. You can start with yourself, your actions. From everyday situations.