Virtual sex: a replacement for real or a nice bonus for two?

Virtual sex has long ceased to be considered a perversion or the lot of separated lovers. For many couples, this is a way to add variety to intimate relationships. What exactly is Wirth good for and why should you not give it up?

The topic of sex will never cease to excite us. We want not only to deal with it: we are interested in how it is “arranged”, what affects its quality, what are the trends in the field of intimate life.

We have many sources of information at our disposal: articles on the Internet, books, video tutorials. If there is a desire to learn more and expand the bed repertoire, there are plenty of opportunities.

One of the popular ways to spice up an intimate relationship is virtual sex, or «virt.» This is a form of communication in which people in the virtual space exchange playful messages, photos, videos and audio files in order to give themselves and their partner sexual pleasure.

Why do people avoid virtual sex?

It happens that one partner offers to try something new, while the other is shy and scared. Of course, all types of sex can be practiced only with mutual consent. But the reason for the refusal may not be the unwillingness to do, for example, «wirth». The point may be in the sexual compatibility of two people, as well as in emotional closeness.

It often happens that spouses come to a specialist with a sexual request, and the work begins with improving their emotional interaction. And only then can you move on to discussing physical intimacy.

Why might someone in a couple be wary of virtual sex? This happens due to a lack of trust. People are afraid that today’s partner may post a correspondence or an intimate video on the network tomorrow, share it with friends (sometimes this really happens). Admitting to a partner that you do not trust him is quite difficult. Therefore, it is easier for a person to say that he (or she) does not like sex at a distance, or that this is stupidity, a surrogate.

And someone does not want to conduct a playful correspondence because at a distance he is resting from a partner. He wants solitude, not virtual, but still intimacy.

What is good about pen pals?

Of course, virtual sex can only be practiced with someone you completely trust. And this trust should not be based on “I believe because I am in love”, but on the already existing evidence of a person’s decency.

If the trust problem is solved, then you can listen to yourself — what kind of prejudices prevent you from trying this kind of sex. I must say that Wirth really has a lot of advantages.

Virtual sex…

  • An indispensable means of maintaining intimacy for those couples who are forced to be away from each other for a long time.
  • It helps to liberate — often for a shy person it is easier to write something playful than to say it. And having a sexual conversation on the phone is easier than live.
  • It helps to strengthen the family, keeping partners from both betrayal and the emergence of porn addiction (which is more common in men).
  • Helps revitalize relationships. After being given homework for a week to communicate daily through sexual messages, clients subsequently report that their attraction to each other has increased significantly.
  • Physiologically safe. During it, it is impossible to get pregnant or catch STDs (sexually transmitted diseases), it can be done during menstruation.

How to reach agreement

It happens that one partner advocates the introduction of sexual innovations, including the use of «wirth», and the second is sharply against any new products, and even more so sex at a distance. What to do in this case?

  1. To begin with, partners need to state their arguments as accurately as possible. It is important that everyone understands why the partner wants or, conversely, does not want to do something. This happens in the family system: problems in one area of ​​uXNUMXbuXNUMXbrelationships often speak of difficulties in another. As we already mentioned, in this case, the reason may be a lack of trust in a partner or some kind of hidden tension due to a family crisis, and sometimes even financial issues. Or maybe the self-doubt of one of the partners.
  2. Then it is worth seeing how these differences can be eliminated.
  3. A family psychologist and sexologist will always help a couple find the best ways to resolve sexual differences and improve the quality of intimate life.

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