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The mass personality reacts to the betrayal of a partner in the same way as it is customary in the broadcast series. A person, as a developed personality, considers and chooses his attitude to the betrayal of a partner.
Usually, there are three main questions:
- was there a betrayal?
- what to do with your feelings, how to survive betrayal — and
- how to respond to the fact of infidelity, what to say, what to do, what decisions to make now and for the future.
Was there a betrayal?
Everything is not easy here, starting with who considers what a betrayal and how they relate to it. Understanding this is important, but only on condition that you know how to talk about such topics. But the question «Why did he change?» are usually unproductive. That is, to think about it, most likely, there is a point, but only when you calm down. While you are worried, your thinking about it only makes you more painful and does not lead to anything healthy. See →
How to survive betrayal
The betrayal of a loved one is usually experienced hard, although in a real case everything can be unexpected, and no one has canceled individual characteristics. The attitude towards cheating depends on many circumstances: young girls with romantic views often perceive the casual flirting of their young man as a disaster, while an elderly woman with children is often ready to look through her husband’s «hobbies» through her fingers. See →
How to respond to change?
How to respond to the fact of betrayal, what to say, what to do, what decisions to make now and for the future? Should you end the relationship? See →
Loyalty and freedom: what and how can be negotiated
In traditional families, there are usually no agreements on issues of fidelity and freedom; at the same time, each, as a rule, wants more freedom for himself and seeks to limit the freedom of another. This is selfishness, not love. In civilized families, the issue of fidelity, like most others, is decided by mutual agreement between the spouses.